Loving the Unlovable
It's very easy for us to love people that treat us right. Even easier to love others when they are thoughtful, caring and compassionate. But what do you do when people make it difficult for you to love them? When they are closed off, emotionally unavailable, and difficult. Holiday season is right around the corner and you might be seeing a relative that is difficult to love or might work with a co-worker who is difficult to work with, or possibly married to someone who is difficult to love. This blog is focused on applicable tools on how to love the unlovable. 1. Evaluate Yourself First, Are YOU the Problem? When I was in college, I was a Resident Assistant for five years. Throughout those five years, I've worked with at least 70 different co-workers with several different personalities. Some co-workers were easy going, others were more up tight, and some were difficult to work with. The few staff members that were difficult to work with, made me dig dee...